Howie Hayman
 
Our Okayama Story

The decision to move to Setouchi City in Okayama Prefecture, Japan was pretty easy, thanks mostly to the ongoing construction of a military base on the neighbor island Mageshima. Although the base will not be completed for many years, the damage is already done. There are metal container houses being installed all over the island for Mageshima construction workers, the traffic on the island increased dramatically on the few main roads, and the island residents are now divided over issues related to the construction of the military base. We felt it was better to move out before things got worse. Now our island house is begin rented and our 4.5 acre mountain, where we spent three years working together making a farm and improving the condition of the forest is now for sale. We are selling our mountain. 私たちは山を売っています。

Our new place is adjacent to the Seto Inland Sea which has beaches offering beautiful views of the islands and great fishing. The neighborhood we moved to is in the countryside at the base of a mountain. The neighbors are wonderful and we have made many good friends in our few months in this house. Hopefully many of you can visit us in Okayama. Until then.
Our Tanegashima Story

The decision to move to Tanegashima was a bit of a surprise for family and friends, although they are pretty much used to me doing these kinds of "crazy" things. We went through a lot to get to this place, including four international moves. The moves, the island house, and getting set up, all proved to be very challenging but the benefits of being on this island were worth the difficulties. I decided to put our Tanegashima story online in order to provide additional information about the island (information in English is minimal at best) including small points which you cannot find elsewhere online. These small details might prove useful to those of you planning to visit Tanegashima or even to travelers to other places in Japan. I am hoping these pages might also serve as inspiration for those of you who are contemplating moving to a new place and a bit nervous. Hopefully you enjoy our story. Thank you for joining us on our ongoing island adventure. We want to thank our friends on Tanegashima for all of the good memories on the island.

WE ARE SELLING OUR MOUNTAIN
私たちは山を売っています。
Tanegashima Mountain For Sale
Story Pages Explained

Hey look at this young picture of me from maybe around the year 2002. LOL. Anyway, these story pages are all about our ongoing family adventures. Think about this as a huge scrapbook without the paper, glue, and tape. The pages are set up in reverse chronological order to make it easier for those of you only interested in our recent stuff, especially related to our agroforestry project up in our mountain. All the older stuff is basically for our kids to know what we went through over the years to get us to the present. This year I decided to go through tons of old computer files (mostly word files) and to delete all the old emails from my, basically unused Hotmail account. In the process, I found a whole lot of "interesting" stories about our past successes and difficulties. I originally thought about deleting much of it but then realized that most of my pictures where the old type, you know, the ones where you had to take the film roll to a photo shop to be processed. I realized keeping all the old information from my files would be important in order to know the dates of many of these old pictures, In addition, I asked my kids many times if they were interested in past stories and they said definitely. I realized this was a good way for them to learn that things don't always go the way you want but if you keep going, things will eventually work out....basically learning from my good and bad experiences. This is a story of love, success, miscalculations, and keeping the resolve to move forward and not give up.
 
Additional Posts

These pages might contain additional information from some of following sources:

Facebook Post - from my FB account
Email Message - from my email account
Journal Post - from the journal our oldest son Shai is keeping

A couple of years ago, I decided social media was a tremendous waste of time and decided to get out. I would post comments about issues affecting the world, like politics or climate change, and would get almost no reaction from close to 2000 "friends" on Facebook. If I posted pictures of my kids and even food, I would get tons of likes and comments. I was fed up and decided to get out my social media accounts including twitter and others. I deleted almost all of my picutres from my Facebook account except for a few profile and cover pictures and decided not to post anymore. I kept the account though in order to stay in contact with friends from back in the day. In addition, I was able to download my entire Facebook account which contained posts and messages with dates and information about places I went to and things I did over the years. Anyway, throughout the story pages you might find text which reads "Facebook Post", Facebook Group Post, or "Email Message". These are simply posts or messages that I found while going through my files and contain information about my story like places, dates, and other stuff. These will be deleted eventually when the pictures are found and added to the information. Basically you can disregard these bits of information, um unless you wanna read them of course. There are also Journal Posts from the from the journal our oldest son Shai is keeping beginning in March 2025.
 

Story 2026
Story 2026
Happy New Year. A new home in a new location, Setouchi, Japan. We are really happy in our new home.

Story 2025
Story 2025
A new home in a new location, Setouchi, Japan. We are really happy in our new home.

Story 2024
Story 2024
Already a very busy year up at our mountain. A roof over the buses and an outside kitchen.

Story 2023
Story 2023
Another busy year up at our mountain with all of us working to make a healthy forest and comfortable living space.

Story 2022
Story 2022
Up at our mountain a few days after New Years. This was our first full year working on the forest.

Story 2021
Story 2021
We purchased our 4.5 acre forested mountain on this small island and the adventures began.

Story 2020
Story 2020
This was both an exciting year and a difficult year for us. We were happy to welcome our third son Ethan into the world.

Story 2019
Story 2019
A nice new years and then we were hit with a pretty strong earthquake with the epicenter only about ten kilometers from the house.

Story 2018
Story 2018
A new years ride on a train and the mystery bowl of ramen.

Story 2017
Story 2017
Happy Hanukkah and Happy New Years. A bit of traditional Japanese food.

Story 2016
Story 2016
This was a really good year for us. We were happy to welcome our second son Lael into the world.

Story 2015
Story 2015
This was actually our first full year on the island. This years was incredible with parties, festivals, and rocket launches.

Story 2014
Story 2014
A really fun year and the beginning of our island adventures. Much of this year was spent setting up and getting used to this place.

Story 2013
Story 2013
The year began with a visit to America. We returned to Japan and ate a lot of conveyor belt sushi.

Story 2012
Story 2012
A few small house parties and then traveled to America for a three month vacation.
Story 2011
Story 2011
Many fun house parties. Tons of Snow. A strong earthquake hit Japan. A lot of trips to our favorite coffee shop.

Story 2010
Story 2010
Purchased the house in Nara and began renovations. A bunch of parties, festivals, and camping.
Story 2009
Story 2009
A year of change. Welcome Shai. Almost bought a house in New York State. Then permanently moved to Japan.

Story 2008
Story 2008
A barbecue at home, and a nice picnic and some romance in Mission Trails Regional Park in San Diego, California.

Story 2007
Story 2007
Getting married and the beginning of our beautiful journey together. A few pictures of hiking in the mountains and fishing.

Story 2006
Story 2006
Beautiful flowers for a beautiful girl. A trip to Starbucks, an Independence Day celebration in the park, some fishing, and a night out on the town.

Story 2005
Story 2005
A yummy food fair in the park, a trip to Las Vegas, and an event downtown with plenty of alcohol.

Story 2004
Story 2004
Going out with our friend, beautiful La Jolla, California, camping, mountain bike riding, and a really windy mountain top.

Story 2003
Story 2003
No Posts.

Story 2002
Story 2002
No Posts.

Story 2001
Story 2001
No Posts.

Story 2000
Story 2000
No Posts.

Story 1999
Story 1999
No Posts.
 
Note: The following year pages shown in GRAY do not have posted information yet.
 
Ancient History
This page encompasses the years 1960-1978. This is a new section I am trying to piece together from old photos and from....yikes....memory. If any of you reading this are friends from Kenmore back in the day and have photos or stories of you and I together, please share them with me. You can contact me at my Facebook account. Thank you so much for contributing.
Archive
Welcome to my story archive pages. These pages were inspired by my kids who constantly let me know how much they are interested in my past, and made possible thanks to a lot of raining days and time in the house. These pages are basically chunks of information that were too cumbersome to split up and put on my individual story pages. My kids wanted to know about places I lived, my education and work background, and of course, old and interesting stories. Although this information is mostly for them, all of you are welcome to read these pages as well.
 
STORY
An Interview with Country Music Star Cowboy Jack
This is an interview from waaaay back in the day with country star Cowboy Jack and my friend Alicia Wszelaki who handled the photography.
Purchase Property